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calvary n.1.(十字架上的)耶穌受難像。2.大磨難,苦惱。3....

If i do not give a friend “ the benefit of the doubt , “ but put the worst construction instead of the best on what is said or done , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我不容許一個朋友享有被“假定無過”的權利,常從最壞的一面而非最好的一面來揣想他的所言所行,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i don not give a friend “ the benefit of the doubt , “ but put the worst construction instead of the best on what is said or done , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我不容許一個朋友有被“假定無過”的權利,常從最壞的一面而非最好的一面來揣想他的所言所行,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i become entangled in any “ inordinate affection “ ; if things or places or people hold me back from obedience to my lord , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我被任何“沒有節制的感情“所纏繞;若任何事物,地方或人物攔阻我對我的主絕對順服,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

Yea , he loved the people “ ; if i can rebuke without a pang , then i know nothing of calvary love 嗯,他愛他的百姓“ ;若我大聲責備而心中卻不感到傷痛,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

“ then i know nothing of calvary love 那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i do not give a friend “ the benefit of the doubt , “ but put the worst construction instead of the best on what is said or done , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我不容許一個朋友享有被“假定無過”的權利,常從最壞的一面而非最好的一面來揣想他的所言所行,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i don not give a friend “ the benefit of the doubt , “ but put the worst construction instead of the best on what is said or done , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我不容許一個朋友有被“假定無過”的權利,常從最壞的一面而非最好的一面來揣想他的所言所行,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i become entangled in any “ inordinate affection “ ; if things or places or people hold me back from obedience to my lord , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我被任何“沒有節制的感情“所纏繞;若任何事物,地方或人物攔阻我對我的主絕對順服,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

Yea , he loved the people “ ; if i can rebuke without a pang , then i know nothing of calvary love 嗯,他愛他的百姓“ ;若我大聲責備而心中卻不感到傷痛,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

“ then i know nothing of calvary love 那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

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If my attitude be one of fear , not faith , about one who has disappointed me ; if i say , “ just what i expected , ” if a fall occurs , then i know noting of calvary love 若我對一個曾經叫我失望的人抱持疑懼的態度,對他沒有信心;若他跌倒的時候我會說: “我早料到他會這樣子… … ”那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i avoid being “ ploughed under , ” with all that such ploughing entails of rough handling , isolation , uncongenial situations , strange tests , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我逃避被犁,以及這種被犁的過程中所包括的一切艱苦、孤立、不協調的情況、奇怪的考驗,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i can not keep silence over a disappointing soul ( unless for the sake of that soul ' s hood or for the good of other it be necessary to speak ) , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我對著一個叫我失望的靈魂時,不能保持緘默(除非是為了他或別人的好處而非講不可) ,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i do not give a friend “ the benefit of the doubt , ” but put the worst construction instead of the best on what is said or done , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我不容許一個朋友享有被假定無過的權力,常從最壞的一面而非最好的一面來揣想他的所言所行,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i do not give a friend “ the benefit of the doubt , “ but put the worst construction instead of the best on what is said or done , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我不容許一個朋友享有被“假定無過”的權利,常從最壞的一面而非最好的一面來揣想他的所言所行,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i hold on to choices of any kind , just because they are my choice ; if i give any room to my private likes and dislikes , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我把個人的快樂置于所托付給我的工作之前,若我雖然已接受這使命,也領受了許多的恩典,卻仍沮喪軟弱,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i don not give a friend “ the benefit of the doubt , “ but put the worst construction instead of the best on what is said or done , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我不容許一個朋友有被“假定無過”的權利,常從最壞的一面而非最好的一面來揣想他的所言所行,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i can hurt another by speaking faithfully without much preparation of spirit , and without hurting myself far more than i hurt that other , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我說實話而傷害他人,卻沒有先做許多心靈的準備,也沒有傷害自己多于傷害對方,那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。

If i am soft to myself and slide comfortably into the vice of self - pity and self - sympathy ; if i do not by the grace of god practice fortitude , then i know nothing of calvary love 若我縱容自己舒適地自憐自艾當中;若我不依靠神的恩典來操練堅忍,漸漸陷入那我就還是絲毫不懂加略山的愛。